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I am not looking to hook up or have a friends with benefits. I am a passionate, independent woman, looking for my friend and lover to enjoy all the adventures in life. I am looking to find someone who is both adventurous but loves the home life too. I would rather enjoy an activity while getting to know you than go on a typical wine and dine date. I believe that if one loves and respects themselves they will be free to do the same with others. I believe that the body you are given is as holy as a tomb and should be treated with respect, which is why I feel it is very important to keep in shape and eat healthy. I am a loyal and true friend, and I honor the friendships of others. Therefore, I encourage the man I'm with to keep his friendships alive as they are vital to his well being. I also would love to participate and possibly learn new fitness hobbies with my man, but I can also appreciate when one needs to have their alone time to get grounded. I am looking for an independent, free spirited, loyal, guy who doesn't take life too seriously. A sense of humor and the ability to laugh at one self also a requirement. Although I am independent I love the closeness of being in a relationship with someone. I love keeping in touch daily, I love when a guy wants to spend time with his girl and isn't afraid to make plans or at least says let's be together, gives a day and time and we can figure out the details as we go. Texting is ok for the short and sweet hellos that let the other person know you are thinking of them, but I'd much rather here your voice for the chats. I'm sensual and affectionate- if you don't like public displays of affection I might not be for you(not that I believe people should get carried on here but a quick kiss and hand holding or a hug won't bother anyone). I may be petite but I am a strong woman for my size, however I always appreciate when a man assists. I am not 100% feminist, I do enjoy some chivalry. I can work hard but try to play harder, and I can clean up well when it's time to put on that party dress. When I am having down time I enjoy reading, watching a movie, doing a puzzle. My fitness regime usually involves HIIT, Yoga, Hiking, cycling,trail running, and I'm trying to get back into mountain biking. I am divorced, my ex and I get along, there is no drama. We have decided it is best for our two tweens to be adults and provide as normal and least disruptive life style for them which has also created a no stress relationship for us. I would love to get to know you if you think you could be the guy I'm looking for. Hope to chat soon.

Capricorn

Slim

5' 4 (1.63 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Sometimes At Home

Not Sure

Butt

Pierced... But Only Ear(s)

Auburn / Red

No pets

No

5-7 times a week

Abs/Core

Morning

No

Home

No

No

College Degree

Part-time

Medical / Health

ED RN

With Kid(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Jock

Friendly

Family, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Movies, Games, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards, Camping

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Museum

Let's go somewhere and do something, like boulder crawling (the Labyrinth in New Paltz! I would like to do an activity which we could still talk but isn't something stressful like a face to face date over food.

Parachuting, but I'm not quite ready yet! Water skiing!

Friendly, Goofy

Spiritual But Not Religious

Never

I Don't Like Politics

To keep happiness as my journey in life and not treat it as a destination. It's not if I have this or do this I will be happy. It's I will choose to be happy. I want to raise my kids so that they will be awesome people who are happy,secure, and independent as they navigate this world. Of course, I want to find my love who will share this awesome adventure called life!

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Raunchy

Situation Comedies, Movies, Reality Shows, Re-runs

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Family, Thriller

Country, Metal, Pop, Dance

Fiction

I can usually try to have fun doing anything, I even had fun waiting on the DMV line once (at the end of the month) chatting up the people around me.

Wit, Spontaneity, Boldness, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

I am looking for a guy who cares about his mind, body, and soul. I want a guy who's confident in himself and will be motivated to having a relationship with someone if the chemistry is right. I do believe it is not shallow to need to be physically attracted to the person you are considering as a life partner. I need a guy who is affectionate, not afraid to speak his mind including those of matters of the heart. I am looking for my man to literally be able to whisk me off my feet both mentally and physically before he can get me into the bedroom.

Intimate, Committed